The female orgasm can be a real mystery to most men. Something like a code they are unable to crack. It is however, something really important and the one thing that will transfer your sexual relationship to a whole new level. Mutual satisfaction is after all, what makes a sexual encounter spicy and well-remembered. Helping your girl cum is not that difficult. It only requires some training and a few tricks, along with patience and persistence.
Become familiar with her body
Start by spreading your girl’s body on the bed and touching her everywhere. Women have multiple sensitive parts that can be easily aroused even with a simple touch. Becoming familiar with her body will enable you to get to know her needs better.
A lot of men don’t have some common knowledge about parts of the human anatomy, like the clit and the vagina. Let your girl show you what she likes, how she masturbates and where she likes to be touched. For example, there are girls who can get easily distracted if you start touching them on their nipples, breasts or butt during foreplay.
Go down on your lady
The most common advice we can give men wishing to make their girls cum is to go down on them. The use of the tongue can be vital in that stage as it is the perfect tool to stimulate her clitoris. Combined with some dirty talk along the way, going down on your girl will make your job easier afterward when the time for the penetration closes by.
Some women can only reach their climax via clitoris stimulation. If such is the case with your partner, then do not rush things. It is better to discuss with her the specific preferences and go for slow, regular movements.
During the whole process of going down on your partner, it is crucial that yo are persistent. Continue to lick and suck her clit slowly, and try to alternate between circle movements and up and down motions.
Add a finger or two
Fingering your girl’s upper wall with one or two fingers can add a lot to the final pleasure. Finding the right pace and synchronizing it with your oral movements can intensify her orgasm and make her lose her mind quickly. Adding a finger can help you hit her g-spot, that little area in your girl’s genital region that can send her to heavens quickly.
Fingering your girl with mastery can result in a squirting orgasm since you can control the place in her vagina that your fingers are reaching. Ideally, place two fingers inside her vagina and curl them slightly pointing upwards. Start moving your hand up and down, avoiding to bringing your fingers in and out as much as possible.
After some time, try to increase your rhythm and use your other hand to palm her pussy and rub against her clit. The combination of those two movements is a magic trick towards making your girl experience a huge orgasm. Some men try to use some lubrication to ease their fingers inside their women. That’s a good trick actually and should be considered particularly for those women who may have difficulty in reaching their orgasms.
Focus on her body and mind as a whole
When you try to make your girl to climax, it is vital that you play with her mind, as well. Women will normally appreciate some dirty talk during your foreplay, along with some mind stimulation. How can you achieve that? By persisting on kissing her on the lips, touching, sucking on her neck and nipples, rubbing your penis against her during the whole foreplay period.
It is also, a good idea to use the help of some sex toys if you are having trouble making her climax the natural way. For example, it is no shame to use a small vibrator on her clit, while continuing to touch and suck her down her body.
Bringing your woman to orgasm even before the intercourse will surely leave her satisfied and hungry for more. Fortunately, there are so many sensitive spots in a woman’s body that you can easily make her cum if you are persistent and a bit careful. After all, the man should be the one responsible for bringing his beloved one to orgasm in a healthy sexual relationship.